Become Loved by (Almost) Everyone
This is topic that is a little further away from the fitness and health that we generally do on this site, but it is still very helpful so take it for what it is worth. Also it should be mentioned, that people who feel loved live healthier lives than those who do not.
As human beings we need to feel connected with one another. In a primitive way we can be described as a social animal. It is in our nature to long for the appeal and praise from others. That is why everyone wants to become a celebrity. Most people are not going to become a super star celebrity, that is a fact. However, there are tricks to becoming more lovable. When you are loved by those around you then at least you can feel like a celebrity.
Do what is right
People love and fallow those who have convictions and stand firm to them. Never be afraid to do what you know in your heart is right, even if it hurts the feelings of someone else. The greatest threats in life are those that come after our souls. When you act in contrast to what you know is right, a blemish is left on the soul. Purity is beautiful. Do not let blemishes mar your soul.
Stop Superficial Judgment
Great minds discuss ideas, mediocre minds discuss events, and small minds discuss people. Stop the gossip talk and move the conversation away from so-and-so’s bad hair style. Many may not realize it, but the words you speak about others directly reflect on you. If someone hears you speak behind someone’s back, what do you think they’ll expect you to do once they turn their back?
Think positive thoughts, speak uplifting words, forgive easily, and carry yourself with poise. Audrey Hepburn said “if you want beautiful eyes, look for the beauty in all things. If you want beautiful lips, speak only kind words. If you want poise, walk with the knowledge that someone is always watching.” People are like magnets they are attracted to those with a positive charge. Be a conduit for some positive energy.
Be proud of who you are. No one on the whole earth is going to be able to make everybody happy. This means you have to work to make yourself happy and let those who love you be a part of your life. Constantly trying to conform to the expectations of those around you is going to distort your shape until you have forgotten what you look like. Embrace yourself. Be who you are. People will love you for it.
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